Many parents suffer from sleep deprivation during the first few months of their baby's life. And the number one question on many parents' minds is: When do babies start sleeping longer? The answer is soon, but it varies quite a bit. Some babies start sleeping for longer stretches as early as 3 months old, while others take until 12 or more months before they're consistently sleeping through the night.
“Babies need good ‘sleep nutrition'—both the right amount and the right quality of sleep—for optimal physical, cognitive, and emotional development,” says Jennifer Waldburger, M.S.W., co-creator of The Sleepeasy Solution book and DVD. When and how your baby will achieve good sleep nutrition depends on factors like their age, weight, temperament, environment, and your family's routine.
The good news is, with a little work and a lot of patience on your part, your baby will eventually snooze for hours at a time. Keep reading to learn when babies sleep through the night naturally, and how the milestone affects development.
How to Put a Baby to Sleep
Developmental Milestones for Sleeping Through the Night
Before your baby can sleep through the night, they have to bypass a number of physical and cognitive milestones.
Decreased startle (or Moro) reflex. The startle reflex causes your baby's limbs to jerk in response to certain triggers: a loud noise, a change in temperature, or a sudden movement. If your baby still has a strong startle reflex, their arms may flail and wake them from sleep. The reflex usually drops significantly and disappears by 4 months.Little or no need for multiple feedings throughout the nightIncreased ability to self-soothe—a skill they'll need to help them get back to sleep if they wake during the night
Keep in mind, though, that as your baby is working to conquer a new milestone, their sleep may be disrupted. For instance, research shows that when a baby is about to roll over, crawl, or even walk, their sleep may be temporarily disrupted. If you notice your baby suddenly is having trouble sleeping consistently again, be on the look out for them to reach a new developmental milestone.
How to Get Baby to Sleep Through the Night
When Babies Start Sleeping Longer
Some babies start sleeping for longer stretches when they're between 4 and 6 months old. Sleeping through the night (more than eight hours) typically occurs around 6 months, says Danny Lewin, Ph.D., associate director of pediatric sleep medicine at Children's National Medical Center in Washington, D.C.
Babies are more likely to reach this milestone after they no longer need nighttime feedings. Breastfeeding babies may take slightly longer to give up eating at night because they metabolize breast milk relatively quickly and require more frequent feedings.
Also, just because your baby is capable of getting (and giving you) eight hours of uninterrupted sleep doesn't mean they will. Every baby is different and will do things on their own timeline.
Note that even if your baby has been sleeping through the night for weeks or months, they may still have trouble at times. Some developmental milestones can be associated with disrupted sleep—you may find your baby perfecting their crawling or sitting skills in the middle of the night!
To reduce their need for nightly drills, make sure they get lots of time to practice during the day. Other issues—such as illness, teething, traveling, and changes in the home—may also affect your baby's sleep. Talk to your pediatrician about any concerns you may have.
How to Help Your Baby Sleep Longer
If you think your baby is ready to sleep through the night, you can do several things to help. Start by putting them down at the proper bedtime for their age—usually 7 or 7:30 p.m. for kids under 1 year old, Waldburger says. If your baby is up late, they may become overtired, which can cause them to take longer to fall asleep, wake up more often during the night, and wake up in the early morning.
Parents should also create a nighttime routine for children. Babies need consistency to help them feel safe and secure, so don't read a story one night and then skip it the next. And though it may seem easier to transfer your little one to the crib after they're already asleep, it will make the process more difficult. Around 4 months old, possibly sooner if they are ready, you can put them down fully awake, so they learn how to put themselves to sleep at bedtime, Waldburger says. This way, they'll be more likely to do it again if they wake up during the night.
And finally, remember that consistency is key. The sleep-learning process can take several weeks, depending on the method you choose, Waldburger says. Some common methods include the Ferber method, the “fading” method, the “cry it out” method, and the “no-cry” sleep training method.
Choosing the Best Sleep Training Method
It's important to note that a quiet room doesn't necessarily mean a sleeping child. "There is evidence that infants are often awake for extended periods of time during the night," Dr. Lewin says. This is normal—but if your child is dependent on you to fall asleep, they'll also be dependent on you to put them back to sleep each time they wake up, Dr. Lewin says.
When to Visit the Doctor
Talk to your pediatrician if you are struggling with your baby not sleeping through the night. Other reasons to chat with the doctor: your baby snores, they have a hard time breathing, or they seem extremely fussy at bedtime and after feedings (which could be a sign of gastroesophageal reflux disease, or GERD).
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